Pardon my capital words-used, and the bold too. I mean, i'm furious. Waaay too furious.
Another case of leaked nude photos from social media is floated. This time, by Facebook. And unfortunately, came from Indonesia. This not-so-teenager, a college student from Jakarta, posted her approximately 28 nude photos on Facebook, and leaked, then the issues went abroad, until (by far i've heard) USA.
Nothing special (for me) looking at those photos, it was just 28 photos of showing your material (which for me, can only seen by my husband).
But, for me as a girl (yes, i'm a girl ha-ha), i am humiliated.
I mean, whether it's wrong or right, but you are not a porn model, T (her initial name). I mean, come on. Do you, T, or any other person who does that too, does that for seeking AN attention?
Well, guess what. People who paying attention to you, are only paying attention to your material. People who collect thousand pictures, or videos, or whatever.
I really don't have any rights to forbid it, i know i don't. It's just, i cannot find a proper, best suitable reason about why is she act like that? I feel.........pity.
She's in my age. Our age.
She's also a college student, just like me.
Saddest thing is, she is just a girl, like me.
Why is she put photos like that on soc-med, which we know can spread freely, can be freely see too by anyone even if they're not even your friends, blows my mind.
How about the family? Which literally raised the kid? Your behavior shows how your family treats you.
If you're doing good, people will also judge "that's because her parents treat her very well."
But if you're doing such a thing? How does that impact your family, that maybe treat you well already, but it just only you went unrespectfully out of mind behavior?
We live in 2011, people. Evvverything, i mean everything, can be spread faster than you can imagine, on the internet mostly. Including this issue. That is why WE NEED TO USE INTERNET WISELY.
Filter. Filter. Filter.
Filter things. Whether things you can post it online, or things that belongs to your private consumption.
Because there are so many aspects will affects you careless behavior.
Girls, we're grown-ups. We need to respect ourself, by not doing such a thing.
So there will be no more humiliated issues.
And remember, your body is a wonderland (and belongs to your family, your life-partner, and of course, yourself.)
It is wonderland because only special people can sees it by their eyes.(forgive my metaphore, anw:P)
But if random people can sees it, it is no longer wonderland.
Anyway, i was just fart, and i swear it smells zuper duper stinks! Ah..if only i can share the smell online. Yea, that one thing probably the one that i'm gonna share. My fart. Not the part of my body that produce fart. Never.
STAY AWESOME, PEOPLE. :)
Xo.