Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Do you respect yourself?

WHAT IS THE JUSTIFICATION OF SHOWING OFF YOUR NOT-SUPPOSED-TO-BE-SHOWED PART OF BODIES IN SOCIAL MEDIA?
Pardon my capital words-used, and the bold too. I mean, i'm furious. Waaay too furious.
Another case of leaked nude photos from social media is floated. This time, by Facebook. And unfortunately, came from Indonesia. This not-so-teenager, a college student from Jakarta, posted her approximately 28 nude photos on Facebook, and leaked, then the issues went abroad, until (by far i've heard) USA.
Nothing special (for me) looking at those photos, it was just 28 photos of showing your material (which for me, can only seen by my husband).
But, for me as a girl (yes, i'm a girl ha-ha), i am humiliated.
I mean, whether it's wrong or right, but you are not a porn model, T (her initial name). I mean, come on. Do you, T, or any other person who does that too, does that for seeking AN attention?
Well, guess what. People who paying attention to you, are only paying attention to your material. People who collect thousand pictures, or videos, or whatever.
I really don't have any rights to forbid it, i know i don't. It's just, i cannot find a proper, best suitable reason about why is she act like that? I feel.........pity.
She's in my age. Our age.
She's also a college student, just like me.
Saddest thing is, she is just a girl, like me.
Why is she put photos like that on soc-med, which we know can spread freely, can be freely see too by anyone even if they're not even your friends, blows my mind.
How about the family? Which literally raised the kid? Your behavior shows how your family treats you.
If you're doing good, people will also judge "that's because her parents treat her very well."
But if you're doing such a thing? How does that impact your family, that maybe treat you well already, but it just only you went unrespectfully out of mind behavior?
We live in 2011, people. Evvverything, i mean everything, can be spread faster than you can imagine, on the internet mostly. Including this issue. That is why WE NEED TO USE INTERNET WISELY.
Filter. Filter. Filter.
Filter things. Whether things you can post it online, or things that belongs to your private consumption.
Because there are so many aspects will affects you careless behavior.
Girls, we're grown-ups. We need to respect ourself, by not doing such a thing.
So there will be no more humiliated issues.
And remember, your body is a wonderland (and belongs to your family, your life-partner, and of course, yourself.)
It is wonderland because only special people can sees it by their eyes. 
But if random people can sees it, it is no longer wonderland.
(forgive my metaphore, anw:P)


Anyway, i was just fart, and i swear it smells zuper duper stinks! Ah..if only i can share the smell online. Yea, that one thing probably the one that i'm gonna share. My fart. Not the part of my body that produce fart. Never.
STAY AWESOME, PEOPLE. :)
Xo.

Bubby!

Here goes the tuesday. I have nothing to do at home so i decided to go to school now. Friends are busy with tests, others are already home by their own. I mean, their real home, not "Kostan". My short-term-so-called-holiday-but-not-so-holiday are good, tho. Here i am, at my school's library, drooling over Glee, Youtube-ing Boyce Avenue, checking out timeline, while craving for pizza. I didn't say it was gurrreat but it's fair enough rather than let myself stink at home. I just miss school. The umm feeling, the crowd, the foods, the vibe, can'y get it while i'm in home.
Why am i even in short-term-so-called-holiday-but-not-so-holiday? Literally, my mid-term tests are over. At least for my minority. That's why i still checking out my friends in other minorities today drooling over comm-theory. So i got a week free.......BUT! (Uuu the 'but' part is always been important twists) the assignments, the meeting-this meeting-that is still goin on around. Yea, hecticness hurts. We might as well enjoy it, tho. <3
D's fine, we're growin up cool and hot in the same time, i mean, in the positive way. It's kinda like our joke "We're cool, and hot! Right, honey?LOL" (Don't take that term to serious, tho)
Anyways, we're just got back from Puncak! Ah..that time. That w w wonderful, priceless, loving time. I'll spread the story right away teehee :D *blushed*
Now, i think i gotta go streched myself for sitting here for hours, while wait my dad to pick me up.




HAVE A GOOD DAY, EVERYONE.
Xo!

TEEHEE

Monday, March 21, 2011

What's up?

LLLLong time no see, blog! Anyway it's kinda weird tho, to post something on my faculty library which can be seen with the people around. Ah..anyway, how's life? Mine's cool. Mid-term test already began, and today is the first day. Thing surely change around Feb-Mar, BEM things, Lovelife things (which drove me crazy either for became overwhelmed with lots of love D came with, also for things that drove me down, story up next.).
Yeah, really. Things happen. Maybe i'll spit it one by one but not now, since in this library i can only surfing for an hour, and there is umm.. 20 minutes left. I brought my laptop tho, maybe i'll use it later.
I can go home already, but Dad hasn't arrive yet, i texted him, but he didn't answered. Neither did D, according to my bbm. Well, have a good day! Maybe i'll come back in 15 minutes, when sun isn't hot like this time.